Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Is Phelps a Perfect Example?

Olympics are over and the wait is on for next one! With all the medals and records, it was a pleasure to watch (though not live, thanks to NBC!!). It was great to watch Michael Phelps break so many records and see the nail biting wins! How could anybody compete with Fish!! All his hard work, dedication paid off. Even China proved itself by not only hosting the never before seen arrangements and not to forget the highest number of golds!

This morning, when I was on the treadmill listening to the songs on my iPod, this thought came to my mind- Is Phelps the perfect example for 'Khudee ko kar buland itna ke har taqdeer sepehle khudaa bande se khud poochhe, bata teri razaa kya hai " (Make yourself so strong that before God writes your fate, let him ask you, tell me what do you want me to write)? I happen to love this Sufi song, which is so inspiring.

Debbie Phelps told in an interview about Michael's childhood - He had ADHD, was teased and alughed at by other kids for looking different and he used to come home crying everyday (and who is laughing now!!). So she put him in swimming so that he could spend his energy in the pool. His coach realized his potential when he was 11 and said 'This kid could achieve something no one has achieved before'! What a foresight, and yes, HE DID IT!!

The teenagers could use Phelps, Shawn Johnson, Usain Bolt, Abhinav Bindra, Dara Torres and many others who have achieved purely on their hard work as their ideals rather than some movie stars spending thousands on drinks and going to rehab! There is so much positive to do in life. Cheers to all the winners in Olympics :).

Monday, August 11, 2008

I was going Nuts!!

"I was going Nuts" said Michael Phelps a.k.a. 'Baltimore Bullet' yesterday after winning the Gold in Men's 400M relay in Olympics (Swimming). It was tough! World record broken and the nail biting competition was a great sight to experience.

All the pain of training, countless hours in the pool, learning new techniques and not to forget the 'believe in yourself' part, are forgotten when in an instant. It was such a proud moment to see everyone reaching their goal to get the Gold! Phelps is trying to break the record of 7 golds in this Olympics and would love to watch him win!! Here is the link for the relay and Phelps cheering his teammates.

http://www.nbcolympics.com/video/share.html?videoid=0811_HD_SWB_HL_L0194

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Man's Greatest Creation - GOD!

OK, I read this thing on CNN - Bombers want to be beheaded, not shot to death!

http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/asiapcf/07/29/bali.appeal.ap/index.html

Whats going on!!! Didn't they think about the people whom they injured/paralyzed for life when they bombed Bali? Or have they forgotten the suffering of the people whom the victims left behind! A person who died was a son, brother, husband, dad and a good friend to many! Can you make THEIR life painless? You appeal for a painless death or asking for mercy to give you a painless death - does it make any sense??!! I have never believed in life after death and you will have to face God - but think for yourself, you have something called Conscience, which needs you to answer right and wrong! Be true to yourself, you don't have to answer GOD!!

World's Most Expensive Cities

Wow, read this article about World's Top 15 Most Expensive Cities. Lucky I do not live in any one of them, but definitely would love to visit all the places listed in there. Take a look:

http://www.forbes.com/2008/07/23/cities-expensive-world-forbeslife-cx_zg_

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Why Should I Hire You?

Changing jobs is such a strenuous work! These are the two most common questions:

1. What are your plans for next 5 years?

2. Why should I hire you?

I don’t know about what one plans for five years, but I read this interesting article about 'Why should I hire you' thing on CareerBuilder. Take a look if you are interested!

http://msn.careerbuilder.com/custom/msn/careeradvice/viewarticle.aspx?articleid=

1569&SiteId=cbmsnhp41569&sc_extcmp=IV_1569_home1&GT1=23000&cbRecursionCnt=

1&cbsid=1fb55af7a7dc4bfeb91206294d179d6a-270664561-wo-6

Monday, August 4, 2008

Refuse to Lose...

Last weekend, I watched ‘Provoked’ by Jagmohan Mundhra, starring Aishwarya Rai, Naveen Andrews and Nandita Das. An excellent movie, truly inspiring. Aishwarya Rai has acted better than any other movie of hers so far.

It’s a movie based on a true story. Kiranjit is convicted of murder of her husband. Kiranjit is from Punjab, and is married to a guy named Deepak Ahluwalia who lives in UK, who abuses her physically, mentally and sexually for nearly ten years. One night, after a fight, she pours gasoline and lights her husband while he is sleeping. Thought she did not intend to kill him, he died of his injuries ten days later. It’s awful to see the way she was abused. She fights, gets help and is convicted of involuntary man slaughter. Her two kids were generally the witnesses to the violence, which no kids go through!

I searched some more on her story and here is something I found out – In an interview she claimed: "I decided to show him how much it hurt. At times I had tried to run away, but he would catch me and beat me even harder. I decided to burn his feet so he couldn't run after me.” She also claimed: "I wanted to give him a scar like those he had given me, to have him suffer pain as I had.”

I cannot imagine what she might have gone through for those ten years! Being abused on a daily basis by the one you love and trust! Well, in a place like India, family honor is the most important thing, doesn’t matter even if a woman has to sacrifice her life! Till we teach our daughters to stand up for themselves, this will continue! It is a relief that she got justice, but I cannot imagine the hardships she had to go through to get out of the memories of those ten years, and gather herself together to start a new life. Cheers to her new life and refusing to lose.

 

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